Parenthood is hard. It’s messy, exhausting, and often thankless. But it’s also full of heart-bursting joy, deep pride, and love that knows no bounds. This sentiment was palpable at the Converse and Cocktail event, a captivating start to the Motivated Mom Retreat, where parents gathered not just to learn, but to connect, share, and be reminded of their strength and resilience.
As parents, we often put ourselves last—our dreams, our desires, and sometimes even our well-being. But LaToyia Dennis, founder of the retreat, has a message for every parent: you matter too. In a world where moms and dads are constantly juggling responsibilities, it’s easy to lose sight of the person behind the parental role. This event, filled with laughter, tears, and honest conversations, was a powerful reminder to pour back into ourselves so that we can keep giving our best to our families.
During the red carpet interviews, Rose Rock, mother of comedian Chris Rock, offered a poignant reminder to parents: “Recognize your children. Let them be who they want to be, not who you want them to be.” Her words resonated deeply, highlighting that a parent’s role is not about imposing their own expectations but about nurturing and supporting their children’s unique identities as they grow into who they’re meant to be.
Laterras R. Whitfield, named Motivated Dad of the Year, also spoke with deep emotion during a red carpet interview about the privilege and responsibility of fatherhood. “The greatest gift I could ever receive is that of being a father,” he said, eyes glistening with pride. But he didn’t shy away from acknowledging the pain many parents face. “We have to be more present in our kids’ lives, have those uncomfortable conversations, and, most importantly, pray.” His words struck a chord with every parent in the room, especially those navigating the complexities of raising children in today’s world.
It was an evening filled with raw, unfiltered emotion. Parents shared their fears, their triumphs, and their dreams for their children. It wasn’t just about celebrating what they do but recognizing who they are and what they’ve overcome to keep going. From heartwarming stories of overcoming personal adversity to practical tips on self-care and staying motivated, the evening was a testament to the power of community and the resilience of the human spirit.
This year’s Motivated Mom Retreat reminded every parent present that they are seen, they are valued, and most importantly, they are not alone. As the night came to a close, there was a renewed energy in the room—a collective vow to not just survive parenthood but to thrive in it, to embrace the challenges, and to celebrate every victory, no matter how small.
Because being a parent is hard, yes, but it’s also the most beautiful, transformative journey we’ll ever embark on. And events like this? They’re the fuel that keeps us going.